Not after the way vs Not really

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Not after the way

InformalBeyond 10,000 (less common)

Not really

InformalTop 2,000 (common)
Most common: Not really
 Not after the wayNot really
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //nɒt ˈɑːftə ðə weɪ//🇺🇸 //nɑt ˈæftər ðə weɪ//🇬🇧 //nɒt ˈrɪəli//🇺🇸 //nɑt ˈrɪəli//
MeaningNot following what just happened.Not true or correct.
ExampleYou think I will trust you again? Not after the way you lied to me.When he said he was an expert, I thought, 'Not really'.
RegisterInformalInformal
How commonBeyond 10,000 (less common)Top 2,000 (common)
Collocationsnot after that, not after everything, not after this, not after what happened, not like thatnot really my thing, not really sure, not really interested
Common mistakesUsing it in formal writing., Misplacing in the sentence, making it unclear., Confusing with similar phrases like 'not after that.'Using it in very formal writing or speeches., Confusing with 'not really' as a definitive answer instead of an expression of doubt.
Usage notesUsed to express disbelief or disagreement, often after someone makes an excuse. Informal contexts are preferred, like conversations among friends.Used to express disagreement or doubt. Common in casual conversations, but may be too informal for formal settings.

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Frequently asked questions: Not after the way vs Not really

What's the difference between Not after the way and Not really?

Not after the way: Not following what just happened. Not really: Not true or correct.

Which is more common: Not after the way and Not really?

Not really is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Not after the way: You think I will trust you again? Not after the way you lied to me. Not really: When he said he was an expert, I thought, 'Not really'.

Can I use Not after the way and Not really interchangeably?

Not always. Not after the way and Not really are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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