Excuse me vs Oh shit i'm sorry vs Pardon me

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Excuse me

Top 1,000 (very common)

Oh shit i'm sorry

InformalTop 3,000 (common)

Pardon me

FormalBeyond 10,000 (less common)
Most formal: Pardon meMost common: Excuse me
 Excuse meOh shit i'm sorryPardon me
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ɪkˈskjuːz miː//🇺🇸 //ɪkˈskjus mi//🇬🇧 //əʊ ʃɪt aɪm ˈsɒrɪ//🇺🇸 //oʊ ʃɪt aɪm ˈsɑri//🇬🇧 //ˈpɑːdən miː//🇺🇸 //ˈpɑrdən mi//
MeaningA polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something.A way to apologize for a mistake or accident.Excuse me
ExampleExcuse me, could you please help me?Oh shit, I'm sorry for bumping into you!Pardon me, could you please repeat that?
RegisterNeutralInformalFormal
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 3,000 (common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Collocationsexcuse me, please, excuse me for interrupting, excuse me, do you mind?spill coffee, make a mistake, forget something importantpardon my interruption, pardon my dust, pardon my mistakes
Antonymsignore me, overlook, disregardno problem, it's okay, no worries, don't mention it-
Common mistakesUsing 'excuse me' in a rude way, Saying 'excuse me' too loudly in quiet places, Not using it when walking past someoneUsing it in a formal setting, Not using it sincerely, Confusing with similar phrases but too politeUsed incorrectly in casual situations, where 'excuse me' is more appropriate., Mispronounced or said too quickly, losing clarity., Omitting 'please' when seeking favor or attention.
Usage notesUse this phrase when you need to interrupt or ask for help politely. It's appropriate in most situations but avoid using it in very formal contexts.Used in casual situations when showing regret. Not suitable for formal contexts or serious situations.Used to politely ask someone to repeat or to get attention. Formal context, often used when someone is interrupting or needs to ask for clarification.

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Frequently asked questions: Excuse me vs Oh shit i'm sorry vs Pardon me

What's the difference between Excuse me, Oh shit i'm sorry, and Pardon me?

Excuse me: A polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something. Oh shit i'm sorry: A way to apologize for a mistake or accident. Pardon me: Excuse me

Which is more formal: Excuse me, Oh shit i'm sorry, and Pardon me?

Pardon me is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Excuse me, Oh shit i'm sorry, and Pardon me?

Excuse me is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Excuse me: Excuse me, could you please help me? Oh shit i'm sorry: Oh shit, I'm sorry for bumping into you! Pardon me: Pardon me, could you please repeat that?

Can I use Excuse me, Oh shit i'm sorry, and Pardon me interchangeably?

Not always. Excuse me, Oh shit i'm sorry, and Pardon me are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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